Mike Mathis’s story is one of powerful transformation, perseverance, and relentless faith. Born and raised in Cleveland, Mathis faced a tumultuous journey early in life, navigating the streets and grappling with the absence of his father. “I was lost, trying to find who I was,” Mike recalls, reflecting on the search for identity that led him down a dangerous path. At just 20 years old, that search resulted in an eight-year prison sentence—a harsh reality that would eventually shape his life’s mission.
“I thought my identity was in the streets,” Mike shares. “I did eight years in prison, and it really molded me, gave me a new set of eyes.” Those eight years, spent in the tough environment of Forestry, Mississippi, served as a crucible that tested and refined him. “We sewed our own clothes, grew our own food—everything was raw and real,” he says. It was in this environment, surrounded by hardened men and under the blazing sun, that Mike began to evolve. “That cocoon gave me tolerance. I knew if I could get through that, I could overcome anything.”
The Birth of Mentoring with the Mentees: A Spark of Purpose
Upon his release in 2009, Mike faced the challenges that many formerly incarcerated individuals encounter—an overwhelming sense of struggle and the stigma of a criminal record. “I came out with another name attached to mine, and it was a battle,” he says. But there was a spark of hope. It came in the form of a moment when Mike was invited to speak at a local church. The impact he had on the youth was immediate and profound. “I was talking to these kids, and I saw how they just connected with me—street kids, tough kids, but they were glued in.” A principal in the audience asked him if he had a program. Mike, determined to keep the momentum, confidently answered, “Yeah, I’ve got a program,” even though he had yet to create one.
That was the birth of Mentoring with the Mentees, a powerful organization that focuses on anger management and character development. “Mentoring with the Mentees just came to me,” Mike says. “I wanted something catchy, something that spoke to the essence of what I was doing.” The program, now reaching across the country, is grounded in Mike’s unique ability to connect with youth from all walks of life. “I see what’s missing. I hear what they talk about, what’s not being addressed, and that’s what I teach,” he explains.
Character Development: Teaching Through Transparency
Mike’s focus on character development comes from a place of deep understanding. “I’m not just advertising my wins; I’m advertising my mistakes too,” he says. “I think that’s what sets me apart—I’m a transparency speaker. I’m not always Superman; I’m Clark Kent too.” This approach allows Mike to connect with his mentees on a human level, offering them guidance not just through his successes but through his failures as well.
Through this method, Mike helps young people understand the importance of self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and how to navigate life’s challenges. He emphasizes the significance of not only celebrating victories but learning how to recover from mistakes. “Mistakes are part of life. I believe God leaves some challenges unresolved so we continue to rely on Him for guidance.”
Rage Unleashed: Addressing Youth Anger with Compassion and Practicality
One of Mike’s most significant contributions to the conversation around youth development is his book Rage Unleashed: Navigating Youth Anger in Today’s World. “It’s a workbook that unpacks anger,” he says. “If you’ve got a child who doesn’t communicate, who’s struggling—this book addresses that.” Through role plays, case studies, and practical advice, Mike provides a pathway for parents, educators, and mentors to help young people navigate the complexities of their emotions. “It’s like Neosporin for the soul,” Mike adds with a smile.
I’m Not Famous, But I Made It: A Story of Survival and Spiritual Growth
His first book, I’m Not Famous, But I Made It, is a testament to his resilience. “I don’t care what people say—I made it,” he says with pride. The book, a bestseller, details his journey from the streets to prison and, ultimately, to freedom—both physically and spiritually. “I used Jesus and chess as my leverage,” Mike recalls. “It’s all about surviving the paths of life, like Psalms 23 talks about.”
Systemic Change Starts with Us: Mike Mathis on Criminal Justice Reform
When asked about the systemic changes needed in criminal justice reform, Mike’s answer is simple but profound: “We need to manage our anger. The more we understand how to handle adversity, the more unstoppable we become.” He believes that the antidote to many of society’s challenges lies within us. “The more we come together, the stronger we are. We have to be the light for one another.”
Mike also highlights the importance of critical thinking and self-discipline, particularly when facing moments of high tension with law enforcement or in personal relationships. “If we manage our emotions better, we have better outcomes,” he says. “It starts with us—being a better version of ourselves.”
Viral Wisdom: Mike Mathis’s Approach to Youth and Dating
Mike Mathis recently gained viral attention for a video where he worked with youth around the sensitive and often challenging topic of dating. In the video, Mike addresses the importance of character, respect, and emotional intelligence when navigating relationships. Through role play and candid conversations, he provides young men and women with the tools to understand the dynamics of dating while emphasizing personal responsibility and mutual respect. “It’s about teaching them how to value themselves and others,” Mike explains. “We talk about everything—from how to handle rejection to how to communicate honestly. The kids were glued in, just like before, because they’re not getting this kind of guidance anywhere else.” This video exemplifies Mike’s ability to tackle tough, real-world issues in a way that resonates deeply with today’s youth, making his mentoring approach both impactful and relatable.
As Mike Mathis continues to inspire and mentor, his legacy will be one of transformation—turning pain into purpose and showing the world what it truly means to rise above adversity.
Looking Forward: Building a Recreation Center and Spreading Love Worldwide
Looking ahead, Mike’s vision for the future is clear. “I need to open up a recreation center,” he says, acknowledging the incredible momentum his work has gained. “I want to keep traveling the world, showing love—real love, which means being transparent.”
Mike Mathis’s story is not just about survival but about thriving. His message is one of hope, redemption, and the power of transparency. “If I can do it, you can do it,” he says. “It’s all about striving to be a man of integrity and excellence. And with good people around you, anything is possible.”
You can follow Mike @memathis2 and visit Mentoring with the Mentees at https://mentoringwiththementees.org/.